tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post5230136081121834271..comments2021-10-25T05:09:01.787-07:00Comments on Biker Chick Adventures: Intro to Biker Chick Adventures: 50 First DatesAbbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12822652671017930853noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-46008291537641777602010-05-16T15:59:52.973-07:002010-05-16T15:59:52.973-07:00I started riding on my own a few years ago at age ...I started riding on my own a few years ago at age 50 and while I loved to ride since I was around 10 it was always just a bonus if a guy had a bike, but now? He MUST have a bike. My ad usually says something like "You must ride, not used to ride, not going to ride next year, no ride but I don't have a bike. Sorry if you don't ride at least as much as I do then you don't ride. Flat out simple."<br /><br />Riding isn't a cute little hobby as I have had guys say to me. It's my lifestyle\<br /><br />And NO smart a**, you can't ride bit**. I can MAKE you my bitch but no one gets on the back of my bike. lol <br /><br />I hate dating, so I ride alone and with friends. That's it. I'm done with it all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-81097146803413990012010-04-15T08:21:06.512-07:002010-04-15T08:21:06.512-07:00I agree, Abby, that a few hours does not ruin a li...I agree, Abby, that a few hours does not ruin a life. Committing to a rocky relationship is not a good thing either. This is a fun read, no committment is implied at the outset. Maybe, Anonymous, you could share your insights on how to build healthy relationships, win friends, and influence people, since you seem to have that information? We all have issues to some degree, but we cannot control other people's issues. We have to either accept, tolerate, or reject those issues in others. One's own issues can be addressed, but changing them can require miraculous intervention. Thinking outside the box? I like it.KennyHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07568817860200474288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-70076091000746541292010-03-18T14:42:44.904-07:002010-03-18T14:42:44.904-07:00I really respect your "rules" for this p...I really respect your "rules" for this project! I think the fact that you let the guys know what you're doing is respectable too! I hope you have fun & they are very fortunate you've giving them the opportunity to have a few hours with you too! I hope you make some great friends along the way. I'm very anti-guy bashing & so far I haven't seen any of that! I don't get from you that this is a way to find your soul mate (although, finding a super nice guy who loves you & rides & is chivalrous...who'd blame you for that?!) or fix yourself or hurt anyone!! Not sure why you'd be considered selfish...but, I don't think all those are your issues! We all have baggage girl, but fortunately we can let go of it! I hope they are all gentlemen who treat you like a lady!momof3noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-19518439254376178362010-03-18T13:04:08.246-07:002010-03-18T13:04:08.246-07:00Is it now turn to play Dr. Freud with regard to pr...Is it now turn to play Dr. Freud with regard to providing anonymous analysis? Pretty please??<br /><br />BTW...looking forward to the adventures. I predict Joe31 will be a character!JerzeeGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15062092991531251179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-33051809180405328852010-03-16T11:31:49.666-07:002010-03-16T11:31:49.666-07:00Ah....Anonymous...she's a writer. She's su...Ah....Anonymous...she's a writer. She's suppose to write. I'm interested in her blog. And besides saying "take time to get yourself straightened out", is like saying "we'll have babies when we can afford them". Never happens. You have baby's then you find a way to afford them. Like wise you don't live in a cave like a hermit to "get fixed". There ARE other blogs out there in cyber land where you can play Dr. Laura!Stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08561930739935777686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-27078180068253859922010-03-16T09:54:23.662-07:002010-03-16T09:54:23.662-07:00OK Doctor. Thanks for the free analysis. Now get a...OK Doctor. Thanks for the free analysis. Now get a life.Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12822652671017930853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-1668626621748782102010-03-16T09:25:46.114-07:002010-03-16T09:25:46.114-07:00Sounds as if you are in denial and running away fr...Sounds as if you are in denial and running away from your own issues. In all your failed engagements, the common person is you. Apparently, you have not addressed all of your own issues. If you can't love yourself, how can you expect to love someone or be loved by someone? You ask how much can you screw someone up in a couple of hours? If you find the right guy, a couple of hours will lead to more time together. If you haven't worked through your own issues, you're destined to inflict more damage to yourself and/or him and then run away again. Stop being so selfish and desperate for attention and take the time to heal yourself and become the person you will be satisfied being. Maybe this is the "out of the box" thinking you need to get out of your "rut."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-67803481043178703752010-03-16T00:24:56.181-07:002010-03-16T00:24:56.181-07:00I left a comment, but then deleted it after thinki...I left a comment, but then deleted it after thinking more about it. Kind of like my past relationships: I jumped in too quickly and then thought better of it.<br /><br />I don't think that calling off three engagements is a good thing. The second one was really hard, but he kept refusing to set a date or talk about the wedding, which told me that he didn't want to go through with it. He has since married a woman he was seeing for a much shorter time than we were together, so I have to believe they were a better match, and I didn't screw up his life. I'd be lying if I said it didn't hurt, but that's life.<br /><br />As far as the other two, better a terminated engagement than a divorce, wouldn't you say?<br /><br />I definitely have issues to work on. I'm not denying that. I said, "...I have to wonder how I manage to get into these committed relationships that should never have happened." I can see that it wasn't very clear. I was saying that I'm doing something wrong, and I need to do something "out of the box" so I don't stay in the same rut. I couldn't agree more.<br /><br />But seriously, do you really think I'll screw up anyone's life by hanging out with them for a few hours? I don't have that much power.Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12822652671017930853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-26496103402171321122010-03-15T23:29:07.972-07:002010-03-15T23:29:07.972-07:00Wow...3 engagements broken off in less than 10 yea...Wow...3 engagements broken off in less than 10 years. Maybe you should take some time to figure out what's wrong with you instead of being so selfish and screwing up more people's lives.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-47098469242398846282010-03-15T08:40:51.774-07:002010-03-15T08:40:51.774-07:00This is going to be fun. I'm just worried that...This is going to be fun. I'm just worried that you won't have time to ride with your big brother!Stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08561930739935777686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-29430951293225613472010-03-15T03:59:02.839-07:002010-03-15T03:59:02.839-07:00I know some single guys who ride but they are seve...I know some single guys who ride but they are several hundred miles away from your location. :-(Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12273697064801882982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54880291124800237.post-12319805997056362402010-03-14T20:37:55.202-07:002010-03-14T20:37:55.202-07:00I was really skeptical about this when I saw your ...I was really skeptical about this when I saw your facebook post...not that it is any of my business. But, I like your rules and methodology. I look forward to following along with this adventure.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06157123879852212524noreply@blogger.com